*___ A Walk to Remember

I have thot of blogging this topic on my way home... it jus happened when the hooters were talking abt "boy-friends" haha... and i was thinking what do women really look for in guys.. as in the criterias??? lol... and i googled earlier and here's my research... "P

Singaporean gals used to/still are looking for 5Cs (i supposed) when finding a boyfriend :
-Credit Card
-Cash
-Career
-Car
-Condominium

but the newest is 5Bs.. but forgotten.. isit something like.. BM, Bungalow.. ok found it...
BMW
Body
Brain
Billionaire
Bungalow

And addition with the 5K's.
Kiasu (scared of losing)
Kiasee (scared of dying)
Kiabor (scared of wife)
Kiaboh (scared of having nothing)
Kiachenghu (scared of government)
.
ha~ lame! so do you agree??

Japanese gals have the below requirements:
-high salary
-tall built
-high education standard

now my question is... wad are ur criterias then???

As for myself, jus like anybody, or most... these were wad i used to look for when i was younger:
1) Good sense of humour
2) Tall (at least 175cm)
3) Cute/"not too bad" looking
4) Romantic
5) Musically talented
6) Smart
7) Good dress sense
8) Easy-going
9) Filial
10) Able to "clique" with my frenz & family

Well.. as for now.. i was jus thinking to myself.. even though im already attached.. i mean why not.. and why cant i continue thinking and looking for the criterias... (attached doesnt mean married wad "P) ha~ oatmeal: dun get too offended arh.. jus my thots.. ops! :9

i feel.. the older u get.. the lesser u will have lesser expectations for ur other half lah... i feel im no longer tat dreamy.. i wun yearn for a perfect bf.. coz nv in this world will anyone be "Perfect"! if u think u are... well.. guess its time to wake up, brothers and sisters!~ "P ok.. i rem i used to play a game with my frenz -- write down 5 names of the opposite gender.. and oso the occupations.. honeymoon venues..5 of each,, soo lame right?! LOL! its childish i know..we were young back then la~ hahaha.. childhood mah.. soo i woke up until i met "JJ" hahaha.. =X ok kidding lah~

aiya.. so wad i wan to say is.. now i feel as long as the guy is sincere and treats me well.. no matter how tall he is (at least he muz be taller than me lah!~ hmm!)... how well dress he is.. these are all physical expectations.. the inner self is more impt than anything... btw recently i heard something i feel is very interesting and innovative and i would like to share.. "every decision is made by a choice!" no one can help u to make a choice.. its only urself.. ur own self.. ur inner self is the one controlling u.. soo no matter wad choice u are making.. u cant blame others.. coz ur the one who cause every decision to trigger.. and wadeva the consequences.. u.. urself.. ur choice caused tat to happen.. hope it doesnt sound difficult to understand.. i thot its quite meaningful.. ur choice to go to school.. ur choice to choose which course.. ur choice oso applies to daily tasks.. to shower/wash up b4 going out.. whether u smell its ur problem.. ur choice to eat/slp/pee/shit.. ur choice to making bigger decisions like to be a good or bad person.. to abide the law.. or to be against the law.. to steal.. ur choice to socialise.. to be extrovert or introvert.. to be friendly or evil..

back to the topic.. inner self is very impt..i think he muz still be filial to his parents.. and ai wu ji wu..my family as well... muz be aggressive but not too ambitious.. still muz be humorous but hopefully chatty and able to interact and get along well with my frenz... muz really be very telepathic with me and know how i feel... he muz be very fast in thinking...he muz be very sensitive to my feelings.. and very thoughtful at times.. he muz be a true MAN! u know wad i mean right, guys? sorry to offend anyone.. i mean im fine with homosexual frens... and i have alot but tat doesnt mean im ok to have one.. my bf has to be a MAN!... 100% str8 ok...! =X and if he is still musically talented.. know one or two instruments.. and able to sing well.. of coz its plus pt lah~ i happy he oso happy lah~

shucks! feeling slpY~
ok in comparation to gals to guys.. i have also googled guys to gals.. but i think this is more for americans??? singaporean guys will normally go for looks....pretty gals~ but most of the times.. always break up.. why? becoz they neglected the inner parts... blinded by the looks i can say..

Top 10: Traits Of A Great Girlfriend
She makes you want to be a better man
She loves you
She gets along with friends & family
She's nagless
She lets you be a man
She respects you
She's beautiful
She's sexual
She's intelligent
She's independent

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/74b_dating_list.html

and all i can say is.. if guys wan gals to be beautiful forever... pls oso look urself into the mirror.. and doll themselves up.. keep themselves in good form b4 making that comment ba.. hmmm~ my conclusion is.. i feel.. seriously feel... this entry is that interesting aft all.. coz i lost my train of thots halfway through.. and feel super tired hahaha.. ops~ =X but wad i can say is.. i think oatmeal is good enough for me.. and i hope im good enough for him as well.. :P ok.. nites!

YYY

GREEN & MUSIC, my life !

Sunday, August 12, 2007